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Comment on Wisconsin lawsuit settlement makes new emails public regarding pro Donald Trump fake electors scheme in 2020 in ~misc
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Comment on ‘Mitzvah night is cancelled’ Inside the sex strike that has infuriated husbands and shaken the ultra-Orthodox world in ~life.women
Habituallytired Link ParentI'm Jewish, but I've never been particularly religious. I'm definitely looked at as an outsider from these ultra conservative/ultra orthodox Jewish communities as well. My experience with ultra...I'm Jewish, but I've never been particularly religious. I'm definitely looked at as an outsider from these ultra conservative/ultra orthodox Jewish communities as well. My experience with ultra orthodox Jewish men generally matches my experience with Evangelical Christian men, though somehow worse.I don't want to bring Israel into this conversation, but my experience with these kinds of men is closely intertwined with my experience of Israel when we went in 2014. On our flight to Israel, the OUJ men refused to sit near women, even across the aisle from them, and held up our flight because the airline dared sell first class/business class tickets to women. One also yelled at me for getting close to him when I was walking with my then-boyfriend-now-husband when he tried to convince Mr. Tired to try taping in Jerusalem.
EDITED TO ADD (because ADHD forgets): OUJ people in Israel are the worst. They don't serve in the IDF, but are more than willing to send others to die for their religious beliefs on the borders. They've successfully brainwashed everyone else that serving in the IDF is an honor and expected societal norm, unless you're UOJ. Then you're exempt because you're "helping the IDF by studying Torah". I don't agree with this method. If you demand that everyone serve compulsory military service, you should not be exempt.
In NY, when I would visit my grandparents growing up, anytime they wanted to go over to Flatbush or any other "Jewish" neighborhood in Brooklyn at the time, for whatever reason, I was always told that I needed to cover up - causing me to get overheated and sick, every single time. But also being a young girl at the time, garnering attention from creepy older men was never ok, and I didn't understand that my grandparents were keeping me safe from creeps in that community that didn't exist elsewhere when I visited them, but I understand that now.
My In-law's rabbi has a female rabbi friend in Israel who was leading a reform (very chill) synagogue. When the OUJ men, not even rabbis, found out that she was a rabbi and leading her own synagogue, they defaced and got her practicing space taken from her and stole the Torah she was using.
When Mr. Tired and I were getting married in 2021, his childhood rabbi married us (at husband's request). The rabbi said if I ever wanted a gett, Mr. Tired had better give it to me no questions asked, or he would have problems with his childhood rabbi himself. I'm not religious, so I don't really care, but it was interesting that he was so invested in making sure I got that if I ever requested it.
As with many conservative circles, and in society as a whole, what you wear should not be the reason someone else can't control themselves, especially children wearing anything. They're children. The comment from the poor woman trying to leave her husband having their small daughter told not to sit on her father's lap in case he gets an erection was absolutely disgusting and speaks volumes on how he feels about women and children, and he needs to be kept away from society if he can't control himself around his own child let alone any other children. CSA isn't a good look, and really does speak volumes about how weirdly repressed these enclaves can be.
This is why insular groups shouldn't exist. They cover up these kinds of awful things, and they don't assimilate with the rest of society so they can grow and learn from others on what's right and wrong in society. There is nothing wrong with practicing your religion until you start hurting others and using the religion as an excuse.
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Comment on US Supreme Court denies California’s plea for immunity for COVID-19 deaths at San Quentin prison in ~health
Habituallytired LinkI'm not mad that they're being punished, as a Californian, but I also can't help but think the only reason this is happening is because it's California. I want to see this happen in all 50 states,...I'm not mad that they're being punished, as a Californian, but I also can't help but think the only reason this is happening is because it's California. I want to see this happen in all 50 states, to be honest. I want this to lead to the closure of for-profit prisons, and to start taking steps to change the industry.
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Comment on Seattle’s law mandating higher pay for food delivery workers is a case study in backfire economics in ~finance
Habituallytired Link ParentYou absolutely pay for the privilege! I'm happy to pay the drivers for delivering the food and the restaurant for making the food! I'm even happy to pay the company that gives all of this to us in...You absolutely pay for the privilege! I'm happy to pay the drivers for delivering the food and the restaurant for making the food! I'm even happy to pay the company that gives all of this to us in one single platform, since that's also a lot of work. I think there is something wrong when everyone is getting charged through the nose and no one is profiting, except the shareholders.
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Comment on California says restaurants must bake all of their add-on fees into menu prices in ~finance
Habituallytired Link"Resort fees" will also have to be baked in to hotel pricing. That's a huge win for people who travel."Resort fees" will also have to be baked in to hotel pricing. That's a huge win for people who travel.
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Comment on Seattle’s law mandating higher pay for food delivery workers is a case study in backfire economics in ~finance
Habituallytired Link ParentFor someone like me, it's the cost of being disabled. When I'm in a flare or am injured due to my disability, I can't cook, I can barely get out of bed. It sucks that they're just getting more and...For someone like me, it's the cost of being disabled. When I'm in a flare or am injured due to my disability, I can't cook, I can barely get out of bed. It sucks that they're just getting more and more expensive without passing that cost on to the drivers and restaurants. The middle men companies (DD, Uber eats, Grubhub...) just jack the prices up and take all the profit while lowering the payouts to the people actually doing the work.
It's the same story I've heard with Lyft and Uber - when they started, they were paying out plenty to get people using the stuff, with reasonable prices for the consumer, but over time, as they become saturated with drivers, the price has gone up for the end user, with payouts going down for the drivers (and in this case, the restaurants too, if they're even informed they're on DD's site.....)
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Comment on San Francisco office sells for a stunning 90% discount from 2016 price in ~finance
Habituallytired Link Parentin this instance, this building would be better served to become some sort of shelter/communal living space since it's so hard to convert it to real housing. It would be a good place for lots of...in this instance, this building would be better served to become some sort of shelter/communal living space since it's so hard to convert it to real housing. It would be a good place for lots of services focused on the unhoused to be put up in.
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Comment on You can now translate sign language automatically with these amazing Raspberry Pi glasses in ~tech
Habituallytired LinkI like the idea of this project, and it would be cool for someone like me who is learning sign language. I just think they didn't do much research into the area. There absolutely are really good...I like the idea of this project, and it would be cool for someone like me who is learning sign language. I just think they didn't do much research into the area. There absolutely are really good resources and apps to learn ASL (or other sign language languages). I'm currently using one and it's been great! I've been learning for two months now, and I had a very rudimentary sign conversation with a HoH person last week after learning on the app.
I would love to see this work one day, but with all languages, that would be so cool. As of now, it doesn't really work and the article is not well-researched.
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Comment on US Congress approves bill banning TikTok unless Chinese owner ByteDance sells platform in ~tech
Habituallytired Link ParentI don't use TikTok, but I have come to agree with this. The time to ban it for being spyware was when it was first launched. Now it's one of the most liberal news sources, especially for the youth...I don't use TikTok, but I have come to agree with this. The time to ban it for being spyware was when it was first launched. Now it's one of the most liberal news sources, especially for the youth vote. Biden signing this into law is not going to go well for younger voters who are TikTok users.
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Comment on Kroger’s panopticon: Making criminals of grocery shoppers in ~tech
Habituallytired Link ParentWe could also bring back the local co-ops. Where everyone has a stake in the community grocery store, so everyone takes care of it. And those who can't afford to shop, can get what they need...We could also bring back the local co-ops. Where everyone has a stake in the community grocery store, so everyone takes care of it. And those who can't afford to shop, can get what they need anyway without being ashamed or intimidated into being unable to get food.
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Comment on NHL Board of Directors approves "relocation" of Arizona Coyotes in ~sports.hockey
Habituallytired LinkAs a sharks fan, I'm so sorry for the Coyote's fan's loss. teams shouldn't be allowed to be owned by a billionaire. Any sport, especially given that the tax payers are the ones who prop up the...As a sharks fan, I'm so sorry for the Coyote's fan's loss. teams shouldn't be allowed to be owned by a billionaire. Any sport, especially given that the tax payers are the ones who prop up the arenas and have to deal with the issues of maintaining one.
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Comment on I just switched to an iPhone, what should I do to make the most of this change? in ~tech
Habituallytired Link ParentI have a friend who works at Google Maps, and my husband was one of the people who first worked on Apple Maps before it was released. Google maps is great if you follow their directions exactly,...I have a friend who works at Google Maps, and my husband was one of the people who first worked on Apple Maps before it was released. Google maps is great if you follow their directions exactly, but apple maps is way better at recalculating your route to make sure you're going in the best direction.
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Comment on Concussion treatment: the insidious myth about resting protocols that even doctors still believe in ~health
Habituallytired LinkI had a concussion a few years ago. The doctor who examined me recommended laying off the screens, but continuing to do gentle things like coloring, listening to music/audiobooks, doing word...I had a concussion a few years ago. The doctor who examined me recommended laying off the screens, but continuing to do gentle things like coloring, listening to music/audiobooks, doing word searches and taking a break and a nap if my head started to hurt again. She also recommended I take walks outside, and drink plenty of water, but take a break from the caffeine. Somewhat of an in-between of what the article recommends and the old school theory of total blackout.
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Comment on 4.8 earthquake in central New Jersey; felt in Philadelphia, New York in ~enviro
Habituallytired LinkAs a Californian, we're all trained for earthquakes. idk if you've ever been trained for it on the East Coast, but for next time (especially if there's going to be an aftershock) - get under...As a Californian, we're all trained for earthquakes. idk if you've ever been trained for it on the East Coast, but for next time (especially if there's going to be an aftershock) - get under something solid (a big table or a desk) and over the back of your head if you can, or in a doorway. If you're outside, get into the middle of the street if you can, far away from any buildings or electric lines.
Good luck!
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Comment on Google is killing Retro Dodo and other independent sites in ~tech
Habituallytired Link ParentThose who pay, end up getting their stuff shown which is the biggest issue, I think, and that's how the big guys got to where they are. Google is definitely to blame there. It's rippled through...Those who pay, end up getting their stuff shown which is the biggest issue, I think, and that's how the big guys got to where they are. Google is definitely to blame there.
It's rippled through the entire internet too. As an example, I post things on instagram and occasionally boost things to my audience when I notice my engagement is lower than normal. I recently boosted something and have almost 700 likes, and everything I've posted after that, even though I've had growth of over 100 follwers in the same time as those 700 likes (unrelated to the boost), only have 5-15 likes each.
I'm planning on experimenting once I'm back from vacation an asking if my followers see what I post without a boost, because I suspect I'm being buried.
When I follow their advice/challenges, I lose follwers. The only time I gain anything is when I spend money on instagram. It's the same thing as paid ads on Google. You want to be seen? You have to pay.
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Comment on Google is killing Retro Dodo and other independent sites in ~tech
Habituallytired LinkThey aren't the only ones affected. Google's algorithm fuckery has ruined traffic for most sites that aren't the major players, at this point.They aren't the only ones affected. Google's algorithm fuckery has ruined traffic for most sites that aren't the major players, at this point.
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Comment on Not every student needs Algebra 2. UC should be flexible on math requirement. in ~science
Habituallytired Link ParentAnd then you get the nonsense now that because "everyone" has a college degree, to weed out further candidates, some companies are requiring master's degrees when it's not needed either. I agree...And then you get the nonsense now that because "everyone" has a college degree, to weed out further candidates, some companies are requiring master's degrees when it's not needed either. I agree with you that not everyone needs to go to college. Continuing education should be the norm for all people, even if it's a simple "updated tax/retirement math course" or something like that, but I agree that we're focusing on college being essential for the wrong reasons.
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Comment on Not every student needs Algebra 2. UC should be flexible on math requirement. in ~science
Habituallytired Link ParentI was one of those students affected by this policy in middle school. The way the class was taught, I basically gave up on learning math and ended up in "remedial" math classes, including...I was one of those students affected by this policy in middle school. The way the class was taught, I basically gave up on learning math and ended up in "remedial" math classes, including introductory statistics. I did so well in statistics, that I felt much more confident with math. I went back to other math classes in high school and early college and struggled again, including taking trigonimetry twice. But calculus clicked for me, just like statistics did.
The point I'm trying to make here is that algebra is really hard if it's not taught well, so we should be enforcing better teaching styles for this essential math course, and break it up instead of teaching the full textbook in one year (or something to that effect) for students that need it to be slower paced.
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Comment on Not every student needs Algebra 2. UC should be flexible on math requirement. in ~science
Habituallytired Link Parenton the topic of some people learn differently: Teaching styles in college and high school tend to differ wildly. If a student doesn't understand something in high school, but retakes the course in...on the topic of some people learn differently: Teaching styles in college and high school tend to differ wildly. If a student doesn't understand something in high school, but retakes the course in college, they may understand it better. They also have a higher chance/ability to choose who teaches them so they can select the teacher and their teaching style, where in high school, that isn't the case usually.
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Comment on You're wrong about Aptera's car. It's ridiculously efficient (and solar powered). in ~transport
Habituallytired Link Parentlol you're right. I should have been more clear, I think that there should be a way to use solar panels to help with regenerative driving. I guess we're still pretty far away from being able to do...lol you're right. I should have been more clear, I think that there should be a way to use solar panels to help with regenerative driving. I guess we're still pretty far away from being able to do anything of the sort with the amount of energy needed to charge a car.
I follow US law related news every day for work. I think I'm going to start checking this site out.